A.A. STUDY GROUPS:
Planning, Starting, Conducting One?
Planning, Starting, Conducting One?
Dick B.
© 2013 Anonymous. All rights reserved
Probably the
most beneficial thing in the author's learning of the recovery program (as
embodied in the Big Book and the Twelve Steps) were the Joe and Charlie Big
Book Seminars. They did a line by line study of the first 103 pages. They made
the unclear clear. They did it with humor, with purpose, and with brevity.
Many have wanted
to do something similar with A.A.'s roots, as a complement to the Big Book
study. This is being done in some areas. But there can be a much more precise
approach, one that will complement the Big Book and enable spiritual growth
within A.A. itself.
More important by
far is the benefit that can flow to those who still suffer from the continued
education and information made available to speakers, sponsors, and bewildered
newcomers. It takes leaders who have studied. It takes leaders who are willing
to tell it like it is instead of telling what they’ve heard in meetings. It
takes leaders who understand how speakers and sponsors short change their
listeners when they are simply telling war stories and looking for laughs or
tears.
For example: How
many mention the Solution in their talks. How many mention the Creator. How
many mention what Dr. Bob said about the origins of the Steps (in the Bible).
How many mention what Bill W. wrote about the sources of his “new version” of
the program in the Steps (Dr. Silkworth, Professor William James, Rev. Samuel
M. Shoemaker, Jr.) How many explain how they “took” the Twelve Steps. How many
highlight the number of times God is mentioned in the Big Book. How many turn
to the Big Book in talking about how to take the Twelve Steps. And. If not, why
not!
Today, things are
changing. Leaders are reading. Leaders are studying. Leaders are networking and
exchanging effective techniques. Leaders are those who have no problem
mentioning God, the Bible, A.A. history, the upbringing of Bill and Bob, the
original A.A. program of 1935, and what the early Akron AAs did and
accomplished
Some are
intimidated by this. Even the Joe and Charlie Big Book Seminars have been
subjected to the comments that they violate the Traditions and that they speak
of non-Conference approved literature. But the Seminars stood the test of time,
with A.A.'s own archivist from New York often participating. Not so easy when
the roots have been involved, but it is simply because AAs don't know their own
history and traditions.
Here are some
pointers:
- Every early A.A.
meeting in Akron and some in New York which were hearing Rev. Sam
Shoemaker, involved discussion of the Bible and Christian subject matter.
They involved use of outside literature, particularly The Upper Room, The
Runner’s Bible, The Greatest Thing in the World, Twice-Born Men, and My
Utmost for His Highest. Dr. Bob's Bible was—for many years--taken to the
podium at the King School Group meeting in Akron (A.A. No. 1).
- There is no
Tradition that can, should, or does forbid discussion of A.A. history or
the Bible or literature that early A.A.'s used. Box 459 had an excellent
article on that point. The article can be obtained from General Services
in New York or from the author.
- Learn well the
words of the Long Form of Tradition Three: "Our membership ought to
include all who suffer from alcoholism. Hence we may refuse none who wish
to recover. Nor ought A.A. membership ever depend upon money or
conformity. Any two or three alcoholics gathered together for sobriety may
call themselves an A.A. group, provided that, as a group, they have no
other affiliation."
- Learn well the
precise words of Long Form Tradition Ten: "No A.A. group or member
should ever, in such a way as to implicate A.A., express any opinion on
outside controversial issues--particularly those of politics, alcohol
reform, or sectarian religion. The Alcoholics Anonymous groups oppose no
one. Concerning such matters they can express no views whatever."
- The foregoing
facts have not stopped people from objecting or trying to ban the Bible,
early A.A. literature, and discussion of the foregoing at this or that
meeting. One group was removed from the meeting list because it studied
Emmet Fox's The Sermon on the Mount. That did not make the prohibitive action
correct. But AAs who want to learn, study, and grow in the roots which
were part and parcel of their history should not be intimidated by
erroneous comments, actions, or interpretations, however sincere,
well-intentioned, or vociferous. Thus Roman Catholics have been holding
retreats for AAs for decades. Bill Wilson often cited this as an example
of why Bible study was permissible in A.A. The matters that the traditions
discuss have to do with SECTARIAN or DENOMINATIONAL religious practices.
A.A.'s Preamble so states.
- The point of all
this is that AAs today are searching for ways to remain within A.A. and,
at the same time, learn more about the language A.A.'s Big Book, Twelve
Steps, and Fellowship. They want to remain in A.A. and practice Eleventh
Step spiritual growth by learning about, studying, and discussing
"helpful books." The Big Book does not say, "There are many
helpful books also" [p. 87]; but don't you dare read or discuss them.
The Big Book does not say, "Suggestions about these may be obtained
from one's priest, minister, or rabbi" [p. 87]; but don't ever
mention this in an A.A. meeting. The Big Book does not say, "Be quick
to see where religious people are right. Make use of what they have to
offer" [p. 87]; but be sure they are never seen, discussed, or quoted
in an A.A. meeting or study group.
- AAs need to know
at least this much about their own history. The Reverend Sam Shoemaker Jr.
and Father Ed Dowling, S.J., spoke to all AAs convened at A.A.'s Twentieth
Convention in St. Louis. Their remarks are contained in Conference
Approved literature (A.A. Comes of
Age). The Jesuit priest Dowling died. But then the Reverend Sam
Shoemaker and The Right Reverend Monsignor John J. Dougherty spoke to all
AAs at their next International Convention, which was at Long Beach. The
Reverend Sam Shoemaker wrote many articles for the A.A. Grapevine. Remarks
of The Reverend Dr. Harry Emerson Fosdick are quoted at length in A.A.'s
Conference Approved A.A. Comes of
Age.
- Whatever some
may think, A.A. has no index of forbidden books. A.A. has never excluded
priests or sisters or ministers or pastors or rabbi’s from its meetings
even when they were not drunks. A.A. has studied the Bible in its meetings
for years. And whenever two or three AAs are gathered together for
sobriety, they may, as they have done for years, discuss the Bible,
discuss the books they have read, and compare these to Big Book and Step
concepts. They may discuss any and every facet of the Eleventh Step and
the Big Book comments about it. It may well be that they would catch flack
if they were exclusively a group of Christian Scientists, Roman Catholics,
Moslems, or atheists who exclude others, call themselves a Christian
Science A.A. Group, or confine their discussions to a Moslem or Roman
Catholic view of A.A.
- But the records
are now well known: there are atheist A.A. groups, gay and lesbian A.A. groups,
young people's groups, airline pilots groups, firemen groups, impaired
physicians group, and so on. Apparently, these affiliations have not
resulted in evictions or riots or insolence, whether that would be
justified or not. In short, A.A.'s inclusiveness, does not mean exclusion
of books, of meetings, of thinking or of free speech.
- In years gone
by, if someone wondered what they could or could not do, they didn’t beg
for permission from some local office or office manager or delegate. If in
doubt, they often wrote to the General Services offices in New York office
asking for a suggestion. And this is just as people have done for years.
Both Bill Wilson and A.A.'s first archivist Nell Wing fielded many a
question. The result was not a ban or “not allowed” sign, but rather a passing
along of some other group’s experience. Not to prohibit or command or
exclude, but rather a sharing of what some other autonomous group has done
and discovered.
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